How to Create a Parenting Plan That Truly Supports Your Family

Parenting after separation can feel daunting, but a well-structured parenting plan can bring steady rhythms back into your family’s life. It creates clarity, reduces conflict, and helps children feel safe and secure — exactly what they need in moments of change.

What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents about the care of their children. It covers day-to-day decisions, routines, responsibilities, and how you’ll communicate moving forward.

It’s not legally enforceable on its own, but it can be turned into consent orders if you want it to be legally binding.

What a Good Parenting Plan Includes

A strong plan doesn’t just outline logistics — it creates emotional stability.

Here are the essentials:

1. Living & Routine Arrangements

• Who the children live with

• Weekly schedules

• Weekend routines

• School pick-ups and drop-offs

Smooth routines help children feel secure.

2. Schooling & Education

• Who communicates with teachers

• How decisions are made

• Support for homework and extracurricular activities

3. Holidays & Special Occasions

• School holiday rotations

• Birthdays

• Christmas and cultural celebrations

Planning ahead avoids misunderstandings later.

4. Health & Medical Decisions

• Emergency contacts

• Day-to-day medical responsibilities

• Allied health professionals (if needed)

5. Communication Between Parents

How you talk to each other matters. We help you set up a communication style that’s respectful, productive, and child-focused.

6. Introducing New Partners

This is a sensitive topic. Clear expectations help keep things stable and minimise emotional stress.

Why Parenting Plans Matter

Children thrive when their world feels predictable and calm. A good parenting plan:

• Reduces conflict

• Supports co-parenting

• Provides emotional safety

• Helps children adapt with confidence

• Protects them from adult stress
  

How We Support You

Our focus is always on what’s best for your children. With the new family law reforms prioritising children’s safety and wellbeing, we help parents build agreements that reflect modern, child-first expectations — without unnecessary conflict.

When needed, we can formalise your agreement into consent orders for extra protection and clarity.

A Calmer Path Forward

A thoughtful parenting plan helps everyone move into the next chapter with stability, routine, and peace. If you’re unsure where to start, we’re here to guide you with clarity and care.