About Us
A Law Firm That Puts Families First
At Family First Lawyers, we believe family law should be about care, clarity, and moving forward—not conflict. Founded by Principal Solicitor Ammara Akbar, our practice was built to do things differently: to provide practical, compassionate guidance that helps families navigate life’s toughest transitions with dignity and confidence.
Our Philosophy
We believe in leading with empathy, prioritising peaceful resolution wherever possible, and standing with strength when it’s truly needed. This balanced approach ensures you feel supported, understood, and empowered at every step.
Empathy First
We understand the human side of family law.
Resolution focused
We aim for practical outcomes without unnecessary conflict.
Strength when needed
If litigation becomes necessary, we advocate firmly while keeping your goals in sight.
Our Approach
Every family is unique, and so is every case
We take the time to truly listen, explain your options in plain language, and create a tailored strategy that supports your long-term wellbeing. Whether through mediation or court representation, we guide you with integrity, transparency, and care.
our team
Compassionate experts, by your side
At Family First Lawyers, we’re more than just legal professionals — we’re people who genuinely care about helping families find clarity and peace of mind. Our small, dedicated team is here to guide you through life’s toughest transitions with empathy, strength, and practical expertise.
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Ammara Akbar
Principal Solicitor
“In family law, the goal isn’t to win — it’s to find a way forward that protects what matters most.”
Ammara founded Family First Lawyers to bring a more human-first approach to family law. She holds degrees in Law and Arts, and was admitted to both the Supreme Court of NSW and the High Court of Australia in 2018.
Before moving to Nowra, Ammara practised employment, family, and criminal law in Sydney. Since 2020, she has focused exclusively on family law in the Shoalhaven, working on matters including divorce, parenting arrangements, relocation cases, property settlements, de facto relationships, and Binding Financial Agreements.
Ammara is on the Legal Aid Panel and has been appointed to the Independent Children’s Lawyer Panel by Legal Aid NSW—work she deeply values. Her priority is always to preserve family relationships where possible and to achieve early, practical resolution through a holistic, resolution-first approach.
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Cathy Davey
Executive Assistant
“Working in family law allows me to be a steady hand during life’s most vulnerable moments.”
Cathy brings more than 10 years of experience working exclusively in family law. As Executive Assistant to the Principal Solicitor, she plays a vital role in client care and practice management, ensuring every matter runs smoothly and every client feels supported.
With a background in both family law and corporate settings, Cathy combines professionalism, discretion, and compassion in her work. She understands the emotional weight clients carry and takes pride in creating a calm, organised, and empathetic experience.
Outside work, Cathy loves spending time with her family and getting lost in her art studio, where she relaxes ad expresses her creativity.
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Amelia Carpenter
Legal Administration Assistant
“Family law teaches you that strength often looks like quiet resilience.”
Amelia is in her final year of university, completing a combined Bachelor of Law and Bachelor of Property and Real Estate.
Amelia has a strong interest in the legal and property sectors and is committed to building a career that combines both disciplines.
Amelia takes pride in being reliable and resilient, approaching her work and goals with a positive attitude. She is always eager to embrace new challenges and opportunities for growth, both professionally and personally.
Outside work, Amelia is passionate about health and fitness. She is currently training for a full Ironman and a Certificate III in Fitness demonstrating the same determination and discipline that she brings to her academic and professional pursuits.
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Matilda U’Ren
Law Graduate
“Family law reminds us that behind every legal issue is a human story.”
Matilda (affectionately known as Tilly) is a law graduate from Charles Sturt University. She is currently completing her Practical Legal Training with Family First Lawyers as she works towards her admission as a solicitor.
Tilly is passionate about helping families navigate difficult times with empathy, understanding, and professionalism, and is committed to further developing her legal skills. With several years of customer service experience, Tilly brings strong communication skills and a genuine ability to connect with people from all walks of life.
Outside work, Tilly enjoys camping and reading, making the most of her downtime by spending time outdoors and relaxing with a good book.
Our Credentials
Excellence in Family Law
Accredited as Independent Children’s Lawyers
Legal Aid NSW Panel Lawyers
Member of Law Society of NSW
Recognised locally for our commitment to providing, accessible, inclusive and client-first family law services that put people at the heart of every matter
